Farha is a woman, who spreads happiness to everyone around her, as a flower that spreads its scent to fill the place. Farha was the same. Her neighbors love her kindness and good treatment to be at the top of the list of beloved in the neighborhood. Farha is a mother of five children, three girls, and two boys.
Life always puts a smile on her face, but she did not know what would happen in April 2015, the life would reveal her hidden fangs to announce to her and her children the extent of his coming hell.
Mukalla – Abha Ba-Awidan
Since the number of women killed by grief is more than the number of men killed by war.
What happened and is happening to Farah justifies the curses directed at war throughout the ages.
In April, the situation of Mukalla city changed from one state to another, and instead of there being security authorities, a local council, and a governorate, Farha and the people of the city surpassed the presence of the emirate, the emir, the Hisbah doctrine(the commission of virtue promotion and vice prevention), and the civil committee, and in light of the efforts made by members of Al-Qaeda to gain the satisfaction of the people in the city, Farha’s older brother-in-law joined them, to become a prominent security leader in the Hisbah, and with the deterioration of the economic situation, the brother persuaded his younger brother to join him in return for a monthly income that improves the situation of his children because, as it is said, a person loses his dignity when he is unable to spend on himself.
His condition is like many who coexisted and engaged with them at that time, despite their affliction, but their insides say what disturbs us is that all this struggle is not for the sake of a luxurious life, but only for the sake of ordinary life! Is it fair to point the finger of blame at them alone?!.
After a short time, the legitimate resistance forces in Yemen and the Arab coalition defeated the remnants of the organization from the city, which made the groups and leaders of the organization disperse in parts of the earth in fear and panic, and some of them remained in the city.
His condition is like many who coexisted and engaged with them at that time, despite their affliction, but their insides say what disturbs us is that all this struggle is not for the sake of a luxurious life, but only for the sake of ordinary life! Is it fair to point the finger of blame at them alone?!
After a short period, the forces of legitimacy and the Arab coalition defeated the remnants of the organization from the city, which made the groups and leaders of the organization disperse the parts of the earth in fear and panic, and some of them remained in the city.
They were dealt with as if they were only deceived, including Farha’s brother-in-law, but what surprised Farah and broke her hope in life was the news of her hearing of her husband’s escape with some of the security leaders in the organization, and she was in contact with him convincing him to return and that there was no danger for him, as evidenced by the fact that his brother stayed and did flee No harm touched him, except that the man’s fear was greater than the pleas of the poor woman who hoped for his return, as his belief that he might be a prey to a false arrest made him flee and live in the prairies and valleys with the organization to be officially one of them and even become a prominent leader later on. How can they not promote and give most of their attention to those who show loyalty and sincerity to them to benefit from them and invest them in their terrorist projects, despite all that, Farah did not despair, as her life was suspended between mobile calls from unknown numbers, to hear the voice of her companion and the father of her children, trying to convince him every time To come back and that there is no fear for him, but she gets a response every time that the matter is no longer by choice.
Farah, who did not expect to go out to work and toil, struggled, but circumstances forced her to order her daughters to complete their education.
I want a wide shroud for my dreams. She did not ask for the shroud-like others. It is true that she swallowed humiliation and proved that women can create hope from impossible threads.
However, the longing remained for the companionship of the beloved and the fleeing husband, and she believed that for a moment she could change his ideologies and convince him to return to complete the reunion of her family, which was scattered by the war and the terrorist.
How not the definition of war for the earth to devour human flesh
As for those who were not devoured by the war, it tore them into separate pieces. ALLAH does not bless the war and its perpetrators.
Nostalgia increased and responded to the husband’s multiple calls to join Farah with him. There are many families present with them and they live an integrated marital life, and this is what Farah expected to find because she believed in the sincerity of everything her husband says to her, and she kept her affair a secret and took her five children with her.
And she packed her things and her bags to go to the site that her husband told her about and wait as he described to her literally without any error because the mistakes in the valleys and mountains might cost her life and the life of her children.
She waited until she saw a four-wheel-drive car approaching her a person she did not know got out and called her by her nickname that her husband knew and told her to ride with him to reach her husband, and she did, and she found herself in the wilderness of the mountains and primitive life and sitting with her husband in one of the caves, except that after one day had passed, Farha declared to her husband not to The ability of her and her daughters to bear such a life, so he moved her to a city at that time, she felt “the feeling of someone who knows the shape of the end, but it passes, perhaps life makes a sudden concession!” Upon her arrival, she was stunned, because their life is almost normal for them, as they live in homes without any fear of raids or drones.
After a week had passed, Farah decided to leave her husband, convinced that both of them had a different path from the other and that the two paths would not meet.
Perhaps because she does not want to feel shame for violating her common sense, which vehemently denies her presence there.
Farha returned to her city and the house she lives in, to begin the journey of thinking about how to obtain the rent of the house and how to provide for the requirements of the children. While he was fighting against the Rejectionists (an insurgent group operating with Shia) on Taiz’s front. Farha in the Iddah period (a waiting period that a Muslim woman observes after the death of her husband), and she was thinking about how he got to the front to fight the Rejectionists after his name was a member of Al-Qaeda and was wanted by the security forces, and here the curtain came down on Farah’s eight years of waiting, but the curtain did not fall on Farah’s journey of the struggle for the sake of the lives of her children, educating and protecting them.
This is how war is, a permanent tragedy, and the worst thing about it is that it does not leave you an opportunity to savor this tragedy
